A lot of things that happen today is as a result of what individuals learn from home (their immediate family).

Our background and environment have ways of influencing us, whether we are aware or not, whether we like it or not, and whether we believe it or not; as in, if you can avoid some, some would still find their ways to you – it is natural.

That is why I want you to pass this to your sons and daughters; in a world where we have gender conflicts, a world where it seems each gender is trying to be in constant war with the opposite gender, in a world where it seems each gender sees the opposite gender as enemy.

Please guide your children.

SONS

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* Teach your sons to be responsible, these boys need to learn this.

* Tell them cooking is not a WOMAN’S THING, teach them how to cook, too. Unless they don’t eat cooked food.

* Tell them girls should be genuinely loved, respected, and taken care of without any ulterior motive and without expecting sex in return…but they should be careful of girls, they can be dangerous, too.

Let them know that girls/women are not for sex.

* Also make them know that they will always see attractive girls and women, but they must not allow that to make them mislead and consume them.

* Tell them their wives are not their slaves, but partners in marital affairs.

They should never enslave a girl/woman.

* Teach them to learn how to control themselves sexually, and think with their brains.

They will seriously need it in life.

* Teach them to listen to their sisters’ and female friends’ advice and suggestions, and never to think they always know better, because, honestly, they don’t.

* Tell them being the head of the house means taking responsibilities as the front leader of the house, and this can’t be done properly without the help, support, encouragement, and advice of the woman (wife).

* Let them start by consulting their sisters’ and very trusted female friends when they want to make a decision that would affect people around them.

Afterall, a big sister takes care of her younger siblings – that is a leader!

* Let them understand that even though males can have some advantages over females, so do females over males in some aspects; but, they should never allow this:

Make the females feel inferior, unappreciated, insufficient, incapable, or irrelevant; because, actually and honestly, they are superior in some cases, appreciated, sufficient, capable, and relevant, even if they have not realized it.

OR

Make the males underrate, undermine, or underestimate the females; because females are stronger and better than they can imagine.

* Let your sons to know that girls/women are not their enemies, unless proven otherwise.

DAUGHTERS

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* Tell your daughters what they should learn and what they should do, so that they will apply it in THEIR HOMES when they become of age.

Not THEIR HUSBANDS’ HOUSE!

* Teach your daughters how to cook well, properly, creatively for themselves in THEIR HOUSE, not FOR THEIR HUSBANDS!

* Teach them how to make money for themselves, become independent, and valuable as A WOMAN; stop calling them RICH MAN WIFE! It is annoying!

Even some unmarried small and big girls today are calling themselves “big man wife”, really?

* Tell your daughters to conduct themselves properly, morally, and decently; stop telling them to “sit like a woman”, you are implying a boy can sit anyhow because he is sitting like a man. (Men sit anyhow, right?)

I get it, so they don’t show their panties, but use another line, not: “sit like a woman”.

* Teach your son’s how to cook, too; in my family, there is no gender-specific role oh! As far as you are in my family, everybody is involved in everything.

Stop making your children think that COOKING IS MEANT FOR WOMEN AND WOMEN ONLY.

I mean, the best chefs in the world are men.

* Stop making your children think and believe that the man/men in the family always make the best decisions, it is wrong!

A girl child can advise her male siblings and parents if you give her the opportunity.

* Let your daughters know that they don’t need a boy/man to succeed, let them know that they have all it takes to be successful.

* Teach your daughters to be contented with what they have and can afford, but that should boy limit or stop them from working to get more/better.

* Tell your daughters that their body is not for money-making, and sex is not a favour to men; tell them it is a joint effort by the man and the woman.

Let them know that their body can be inviting and tempting to the opposite gender (it is natural), but they should not go extra miles to intentionally seduce boys/men to fall.

N/B: If they all fall on their own, that is on them.

* Let your daughters know that boys/men are not their enemies, unless proven otherwise.

* Stop telling them that the future is female, the future is neither female nor make; tell them the future is bright!

Don’t forget to tell your children these, and of course, you can add more.