I have something personal against sexual harassers, and I really hate sexual harassment. I hope there is a severe punishment for them. But, is it really about appearance and dressing?
I know you know the popular adage about dressing the way you want to be addressed and the way you dress is the way you will be addressed; but does that justify sexual harassment? No, it does not!
A guy on twitter narrated how he went to a man’s office to present a business proposal, and was sexually harassed by the man. People quoted, retweeted, posted, reposted, and shared the tweet. A lot of people started asking whether this one too was about how he dressed. Especially, ladies in particular, who want to use this story to justify indecency and nudity.
Really?
No be new thing!
I want you to understand these:
• Women should dress decently and not provocatively; not just because you don’t want to seduce people or make people’s heads to swell, or mislead those ready to be misled; but because it is good to be decent.
You know what you wear, it is intentional, it is never a mistake.
• Men and boys should learn how to control themselves. See but don’t look! You won’t die.
There is no excuse to be a sexual harasser, and no justification for sexual harassment.
• Even if you wear a robe or gown and hijab (respect to Muslims), there will always be perverts, they will see the curves, the face, etc and their sick mind would always make them approach a lady inappropriately.
That’s because there are a lot of sexually sick people who need to be punished severely.
• There are a lot of people – pedophiles (hebophiles and ephebophiles), gay (homosexuals and lesbians), queer, straight (heterosexuals), etc. who make sexual advances to people…on daily basis.
They don’t write it on people’s faces. I had an ugly experience, too; a nice man…well, that’s for another day.
I personally know a guy who was sexually harassed by a “big man” few weeks ago.
• These things happen; men and (especially, women) have unpleasant sexual experiences everyday.
• Stop trying to justify or defend nudity and indecent/provocative dressing.
Yes, it really encourages sexual harassment, too; and you know!
• Everybody should get sense, be responsible, and decent in appearance and behaviour.
The whole thing is sickening!!
A thief breaks into a person’s well-secured house, so the other person keeps their own open because they claim it is not by the security or by properly locking the doors and gates of a house.
So, must you keep your own open for easier access?
Everybody is not a thief, but a thief would certainly visit that house that is always left open.
I hope you understand.