Sometimes we don’t tell ourselves the bitter truth, at times we are the problem in our relationship.

So?

When you realize this, kindly have that conversation and end the relationship as soon as possible and peacefully.

Sometimes you need to break up with someone when you realize you are taking too much and giving nothing.

If they are the one putting most effort and you realize you are not doing same, and it is difficult for you to do even half of what they are doing for the relationship, let them know! Let them know that they are better off without you (because you are clearly not helping the relationship).

When you see that you are wasting somebody’s time, please let them be faced with the truth (the truth that would hurt you).

When they start struggling because of you, when it appears you are draining them, please let them go! Make them understand this, and no matter how in love they are with you, convince them to move on for their good

If all you do is stress them or cause them pain consistently and continuously, kindly help their life and free them from that bondage.

If they are not at their best when they are with/around you, but lighten up when they are with others, please set them free for good.

If you are stopping them from progressing (of course, it doesn’t have to be on purpose), if you somehow can’t push or nudge them to succeed, if you can’t motivate or inspire them positively, if you can’t contribute to their growth or development, please have a conscience and let them go!

If you somehow make them cold spiritually, if you add nothing to their spiritual life/growth, please set them free!

If you don’t contribute to their life in any way, if you’re not compatible in purpose, if you are not compatible in faith, and if you are not compatible in life, I’m sorry, you are not meant for each other.

Remember, some relationships will never work out.

I hope you understand.