(The Pointless Battle.)

I’ve seen a lot of kids (teenagers and adolescents, especially between 18-24) being misled by some childish under-30s and some adults who have failed in having a healthy relationship, and are still hurt by what the opposite gender did to them.

I get their anger and bitterness, but they need to heal; they actually need help.

In all honesty, at times I am flummoxed by the way people reason, behave, act, and react.

I have said it many times, and I will still say it; this world now seems to be a competition or battle between MALES and FEMALES, always having constant and unnecessary arguments, comparisons and fights.

If you regard yourself an alpha male or a feminist, put it in your pocket or purse. You really don’t need to announce it, it is unnecessary; people will see it for themselves.

No sane person treats a particular set of people or gender like they don’t matter.

Worse still, if you have to announce it to justify your sick behaviour and actions, then you have a bigger problem.

The worst of all is when you choose to be mulish, pertinacious, and headstrong about it, without having a rethink.

Sometimes you are blind to the fact that you are at fault.

It is asinine to continue living this way.

One gender feels they’re being cheated, the other feels they are not appreciated enough.

One feels the other can’t do without them, the other one feels they can do what the other cannot do.

They both think they can outdo each other.

One feels they should be the more protected ones, the other feel they must always be the first choice.

One feels the other can’t survive alone if they are not there to make life sweet and beautiful for them, the other feels they can live alone and not feel the absence of the other one.

One feels they can get anything they want by just making the other SEE and LOOK at them.

The other feels they can talk and touch the other into doing their will.

One feels they are more powerful, one feels they can counter attack and overpower the other.

One is proud for being almost impossible to understand, one feels the other one is problematic, and the cause of the the world’s problems.

Sometimes, they are both right, at times, they are both wrong.

But none of them is always right.

None of them is PERFECT.

If you have a problem with someone, don’t extend it to their gender.

In case you don’t know, no gender can survive alone.

Please, let’s just live right and stop the madness.

It is not healthy.

If any gender could survive alone, there would have been only that (one) gender.

Both genders are very important.

This fight that is going on (whether you have noticed it or not) is really unnecessary, and it will not end well for a lot of people involved.

No, that is not a course, I am only telling you what will happen.

It is human (as it is to err) to have a misunderstanding or a fight with anybody or some people of a particular gender; but it is absurdity and dippiness to extend it to the every person of that gender.

You can’t have a successful healthy relationship if you continue this way,

Grow up, be rational, and be sensible…if you like.

I hope you understand this before it becomes too late.