God gave us sex, let’s not be ashamed to address it, especially in a world where it has been greatly abused.
God created sexual intercourse to be enjoyed by qualified individuals (married couples; because they are qualified in every sense of the word), for pleasure, sexual tension release, and procreation. But the world (people) have abused it, and yet, the people that are supposed to address this issue are scared and embarrassed to do so.
You enjoy it in secret, but can’t address it in public.
How do you expect the younger generation to learn the right thing?
We are scared of preaching it in church, so that we would not be criticized or judged/condemned.
Most Christians/Christian leaders feel sex is somehow unholy, so it is inappropriate and carnal to talk about it in church; I mean gatherings where you only have adults.
God created sex intentionally, and saw that it is good.
People be like: “It is a private matter, so let’s just do it in secret and mind our business in public.”
It is disgusting to talk about.
Really?
Well, this is not like pooing, but still, pooing is a very important part/activity of human beings, higher and lower class animals, and life.
Even though everybody alive is automatically qualified to enjoy pooing, everybody is not automatically qualified to enjoy sex; because, mentally, physically, biologically, and socially, not everyone is automatically ready.
But, I am not here to condemn anybody’s decision to avoid talking about sex; I am simply trying to make us understand that the world is waiting to swallow the younger generation, people’s children and loved ones, who are clearly unable to resist the mind blowing attraction, enticement, fun, pleasure, and sweetness it sells out.
Even most of the adults can’t control themselves when it involves sex, so you can imagine how DIFFICULT and TEMPTING it is for teenagers and young adults.
Remember you have children, younger siblings, nephews, nieces, cousins, church members who are constantly and continuously presented and gifted sex in different colourful, but unfiltered and raw packages.
Do you not care for real?
Okay, let me give you some hints.
Is it until you see your daughter dancing or posing naked on social media?
Let me tell you this, you don’t have any right to judge anybody, especially, when you have never corrected, teach, or guide him/her.
Most women are now living with the faulty and demonic notion that no man can really resist a well presented vagina.
Others think no man is satisfied with one vagina.
So many others believe a man’s penis must be as big as yam before he would be able to satisfy her, thereby making many young men with low self-esteem to go any extent to increase their penis, just to impress a girl or lady and shift her womb, and would not still marry her.
Most of the sexually active women now want a man to be able to go ten rounds, and thirty minutes each round, before they are called “A MAN”; the foolish men now take all sorts of rubbish, some even destroying themselves in the process, just to perform all night.
Most men now lustfully crave big buttocks and big breasts so much that the women with low self-esteem have yielded to pressure by going as far as doing surgery and pumping their bodies, enjoying terrible procedures, just to look “hot” and “sexy” for the men, so that they would spend everything they have on them; the ladies would twerk for them, the men be allowed to look, touch, fondle, and then they have sex.
We live in a world where the sexual aggressiveness of men (it is natural) has been taken advantage of; men now pay to have sex with women, as if it is not being enjoyed or felt by both parties.
Why? It is because, a man gets easily turned on by what he sees in a woman; unlike a woman who is more complex, naturally.
So, to them, “giving” men sex is doing men a favour…which is wrong!
That’s why you hear things like he dumped me, after sleeping with me.”
Excuse me, didn’t you sleep with him too?
That is why women are those indulging in prostitution.
A man can be satisfied in 3 minutes, but a woman’s body takes time; that’s why they complain about 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, (keep counting) – minute men.
So, it is naturally easier to satisfy a man than to satisfy a woman.
Some browsers now promote pornography, you don’t have to subscribe for it, it just comes; unless you block them.
Sex now almost controls the world.
Now men sexualize women, even women sexualize themselves.
Most women now make sex seem like a price/reward for men.
Most men now hunt women for sex like it is a game.
So many women now do anything to have or maintain a “good dick”, and so many men desperately desire a “tight pussy”.
When you are always seen with a member of the opposite gender, you are expected to kpensh, knack, straph, do, have sex already.
Almost everybody now wants to “fuck”.
When you are 25 and still a virgin, you are seen as a fool.
When you abstain from sex, you are either scared of the consequences, not man enough, not woman enough, hiding a health problem, not really into a person, or having an affair with someone else (if in a relationship).
Sexual intercourse is now seen as a door opener.
Sex is now seen as a do or die activity.
Teenage girls are now allowing boys to use “just the tip” to deceive them, practice withdrawal method even with condoms, and using drinks and pills for effective and well trusted protection; so that their parents would not know or suspect how far they have gone.
You don’t have time for your teenage child(ren), in this generation?
Well done, sir/ma’am!
It is well with you!
You don’t want to talk to your children about sex, because you feel they are too good or can’t be influenced; well, it is good you trust them, but, truthfully speaking, if you don’t guide them, others will.
Others include their friends, mates, the internet, social media, uncensored articles, movies, books, apps, ads, etc.
When a child gets to secondary/high school, (primary schools are now coming up strongly) s(he) MUST be open to sex talks and discussions, either from an older student or his/her mates.
If care is not taken, that is where they get blown away, and want to try.
SO MANY lose their virginity, get introduced to masturbation (jerking off, rubbing their genitals on surfaces to give themselves pleasure, fondling their clitoris for intense pleasure, using anything big and penis-like that can penetrate the vagina, make use of dildos and vibrators as they get older) lesbianism and homosexuality, etc.
So, what can you do to help and guide the younger ones, the teenagers, and the young adults?
Do you still think it is unnecessary to talk about sex?
If you don’t have a child, niece, nephew, cousin, or any young person you care about now, you will certainly, most definitely have at least one tomorrow.
Would you still be quiet while she/he drowns and gets destroyed?
Well, I think this is enough for now.
I sincerely hope you got the message, and understand how serious this matter is.
Think about it!