Dearest,

If I realize that I am just not right for you, I’m letting you go.

Am I Wasting your time? Yes?
Then I would let you go.

You don’t feel like continuing with me? Okay, I am letting you go as soon as possible.
I am not the right person for you? Alright. We would break up amicably.

You have better options out there? That’s good!
Please, don’t waste another second with me; you deserve “better”. Let’s go our separate ways.

I am not making you happy, really? Thanks for making me know, even though I feel bad knowing that. It hurts, but I am sorry I couldn’t make you happy; please go and be happy.

I would never be the reason you are unhappy. You are not at your best when you are with/around me. Dang!
What can I do to change that? Oh, nothing? Okay, I think you should be with someone who can make you be at your best.

I am wasting your time, your mates are married and many are mothers already, oh dear!
I’m sorry, you should be with someone who is ready to get married right away.
I am not yet ready, I don’t want to waste your time, I don’t want to delay you.
Is your level too high for me? Apparently, we are in different leagues at the moment. Do not lower your standards because of me, please.

I want you to be yourself, enjoy your life, and that’s clearly not with me.
If you think or know that I am wasting your time, please let me know, and I would make it easy for us. You deserve to be happy. If I am delaying you, and you don’t want to or can’t “wait” anymore, you don’t want to or can’t be with me anymore; just let me know.

No hard feelings, I am gonna allow you leave for good. I want the best for you.

We will all be fine.

I still care about you, I always will.

But we can’t be together again, because I do not want to delay your life.

Love, Ny.