When going into a relationship, it is normal and ideal to have a picture of the kind of person you want to be with. but, also, there is a certain kind of person you really should avoid. Do not push or try to be with a person who is: 1. Confused. 2. Undecided. 3. “Not …
Dearest, If I realize that I am just not right for you, I’m letting you go. Am I Wasting your time? Yes?Then I would let you go. You don’t feel like continuing with me? Okay, I am letting you go as soon as possible. I am not the right person for you? Alright. We would …
When a person who is not your “spec” or “type” finds their way into your space, and is always emotionally, physically, mentally, and financially available for you; you’ll realize that there is a difference between needs and wants. Spec here and there, everybody has “specs”; but what really is a “spec”? Someone would tell a …
On a normal day, ghosting is childish and wrong.Ghosting is not gender-specific, it is done by both men and women ghost. But is it right to ghost? No and yes.No (initially/normally) and yes (eventually/).No (most times? Normally), but yes (in some cases/if it is the only reasonable option).How so? I am not contradicting myself, communication …
Women: “If you like, give him taekwondo sex style, he will still leave/cheat (on you).” Men: “Even if you buy/give her the whole world, she will still leave you.”Are you for real? Those statements above irk me, they disgust me; they get me exasperated. Anyone who tells you any of these does not like you, …
Sometimes we don’t tell ourselves the bitter truth, at times we are the problem in our relationship. So? When you realize this, kindly have that conversation and end the relationship as soon as possible and peacefully. Sometimes you need to break up with someone when you realize you are taking too much and giving nothing. …
Is Romantic Relationship advisable for Christians? First of all, understand the meaning of “romantic”. Romantic and sexual are two different things, please check them out. Romantic is really about gestures, the most common ones: buying flowers for someone you love, getting them birthday gifts, etc. Being in a relationship that is defined to lead to …
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If ghosting is how you breakup with an ex, you are wrong! If you are breaking up with someone, please remember that communication starts, sustains, and also should be used to end a relationship. It show respect and love (I don’t expect you to hate them because you can’t continue being together, unless there is …
Contrary to some flawed popular belief, no gender is polygamous in nature, and no gender was programmed to cheat; it is an individual shortcoming. You should know that some people would never cheat, no matter the situation they find themselves. Cheating starts like a seed, it is being planted, carelessly or carefully.On purpose or by …
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