We all have friends, even though some of the people we call friends are actually not our friends. A person can be friendly and not be a friend. An enemy can be friendly, too.And, a person may not look like you would want to call a friend, but actually be a friend.Remember, you shouldn’t judge …
I saw an interview of Nicki Minaj few weeks ago, where she talked about her early days in the music industry (if you knew her then, you’d know how she looked); she said she went to fix herself because of how Lil Wayne and co used to “playfully” and “jokingly” tell her about her body. …
Let me quickly share these about communication: 1. If you are a person’s friend, let them know what is not “okay” about them (something they can change/work on).If you are not able to talk about sensitive issues or have those difficult conversations with your friend (not acquaintance); you are not a true friend. Be tactful …
I have something personal against sexual harassers, and I really hate sexual harassment. I hope there is a severe punishment for them. But, is it really about appearance and dressing? I know you know the popular adage about dressing the way you want to be addressed and the way you dress is the way you …
Sexual Harassment: Is it Really About the Victim’s Dressing? Read More »
I always want to be treated the way I treat people. I do not say it out often, but deep down, I’d love it. I honestly love the way I treat people. But, people will always be different! I’m sorry, but it is life. We must not be friends, we must not know one another; …
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Why exactly do people hide their real age? Hiding your real age because you feel you are too old to be at the level you are (not yet made – you think you are yet to make it in life) is inferiority complex – low self-esteem. If you want to overcome this, start by knowing …
Why celebrate people? Do we have to celebrate people? Should we celebrate people? Do you celebrate people? Please, learn to celebrate people for real, celebrate people sincerely; celebrate them because they deserve it. Do not celebrate people just because you want to be celebrated in return.Don’t celebrate people only because they are popular.Don’t celebrate people …
What do you understand by trust? I mean, what does trust mean to you?I will leave you to figure that out for yourself; but I want you to know that trust means different things to different people, and it is contextual. Trust comes in different forms. Trust is believing in God. Trust is believing in …
God gave us sex, let’s not be ashamed to address it, especially in a world where it has been greatly abused. God created sexual intercourse to be enjoyed by qualified individuals (married couples; because they are qualified in every sense of the word), for pleasure, sexual tension release, and procreation. But the world (people) have …
Be mindful of the friends you make. Filter them carefully. Don’t be influenced negatively by people and society (including social media). There are a lot of negative influencers out there. Be very careful. Don’t visit strangers (even if I ask you to meet me at a particular place, and you have not known me well, …