Theses are not rules, they are reminders…You will probably add more to the list. But, please, always remember these: * If you are directed to sit on a particular seat by the ushers, please respect yourself and their office. Don’t imagine their ages, we know you have their type at home, but at that point, …
When I’m in a relationship, I stop being “unnecessarily close” to any other lady (family aside). My attention, my focus, and my concentration is on one person – my partner. I relate very well with everybody, but I am very emotionally sensitive. Thank God for emotional intelligence; I politely set a boundary for people who …
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A lot of people say they want a good babe with “ashawo (Nigerians pidgin for prostitute) vibes”. Some say they want a good guy with “a touch of bad boy”. So many Christians say they want a God-fearing husband or wife that is “bad” in the bedroom. The question now is, what do you mean …
I have something personal against sexual harassers, and I really hate sexual harassment. I hope there is a severe punishment for them. But, is it really about appearance and dressing? I know you know the popular adage about dressing the way you want to be addressed and the way you dress is the way you …
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Relationships are not meant to be stressful, but everyone in it is supposed to be accountable and responsible. Do not give up your life, future, or purpose for a relationship; if you are doing it rightly, the relationship and your life, future, or purpose would align perfectly…sooner or later. You must be whole before sharing …
Emotional affair is more common than sexual affair, but sexual affair is more talked about, more popular, and given more attention than emotional affair. It is more difficult to notice emotional affair when it starts, unless you’re very careful, extremely observant, an empath, emotionally intelligent, or told by an onlooker. Unlike sexual affair, emotional affair …
I would say this as many times as possible; you do not need a (romantic) relationship to be complete. If you are of the mindset that you are incomplete or deficient without a relationship, you’d be too desperate to have one, because you would be too desperate for a partner – to complete you. Also, …
If you think every guy wants to sleep with a lady if given the opportunity, I am here to tell you that you have a very flawed mindset. Believe it or not, you are wrong! Personally, I have had several opportunities, but I didn’t do it. It is a matter of choice, decision, and self-control. …
Nobody will wait for you forever! In fact, you’d be too delusional and selfish to think or believe that anybody at all would really want to or gladly wait for you forever. They may wait for a very long time, but not forever. If you are seeing the signs, the green lights, and even the …
I always want to be treated the way I treat people. I do not say it out often, but deep down, I’d love it. I honestly love the way I treat people. But, people will always be different! I’m sorry, but it is life. We must not be friends, we must not know one another; …
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