I won’t go deep on this for now, but you need to know that:

There are things we don’t like because they are not what we are used to.

Sometimes, some things are not really worth trying out, sometimes they are.

Sometimes, some things enjoyed by some people are threats to and not enjoyed by others.

Sometimes we are not just comfortable with the idea of trying out some things.

Sometimes we want to try things out, and there is nothing wrong with “experimenting” in the bedroom – with your spouse.

Just like Tim and Beverly LaHaye said in their book, “The Act of Marriage: The Beauty of Sexual Love”; (paraphrased): “Some sex styles are probably for athletes.”

Someone asked: “Are anal sex or analingus safe or worth it?”

Me: “About anal sex, it depends on the ‘penetratee’; it would be selfish for the ‘penetrator’ to insist on having it when the ‘penetratee’ is not comfortable with the idea.

Naturally, it is the riskiest type of sex – especially for the receiver/penetratee.”

Me: “About analingus, the giver is the one exposed to the most risk. It is risky! But it is a free world, you have the right and freedom to do you. Just choose your risks wisely.”

Personally? I think it is not necessary.

Well, some things depends on your spouse; talk of “dutiful sex”.

Looking deeper, is it really worth the stress or risk?

I don’t know, there are some things you have to decide for yourself.

Use wisdom.