YOUNG GIRLS

He doesn’t love you, he just wants to have sex with you. It is lust.

You are not the most beautiful girl he knows, you are just wired to be moved by words said to you.

Your curves, skin, pretty face, physique, buttocks, and breasts are sexually appealing, attractive, and enticing to him; he just wants to have a taste of you.

He doesn’t mind spending on you, as far as he gets what he wants.

He can surprisingly be very patient, if you give him the impression that he should wait.

He would “cross oceans, climb mountains, walk across valleys and deserts” just to please you…because he has seflish plans to defile you.

He would spoil you silly, money may not be a problem at all.

Stop being moved by money and flashy lifestyle; I know you can do it.

He is sweet and calm, that is deceptive; he has an agenda. It would not end well.

No, you are not wise and woke, you are being naive and foolish if you think his world/the world revolves around you.

You are at the point in your life where you attract, mind who/what you attract.

There will be a time when you are no longer able to attract men and boys.

Sensuality is naturally working for your favour at the moment; you call it sexiness.

You know that men are moved by what they feed their eyes on, but it doesn’t always end well when (sensuality is) abused and misused.

What if you get pregnant?

Oh! You can flush it.

What if you get STDs/STIs?

What if you get reproductive complications?

Treat every close boy like a brother, not a catch.

Don’t be too close to an elderly man or married man that you become too comfortable around him.

Be sensitive and extremely careful.

Have sense!

Stop being naive.

Stop being foolish.

It is not too late to turn a new leaf.

You are great, and you have a very bright future ahead of you, don’t mess it up.

Even if you made mistakes already, those mistakes do not and cannot define or stop you, unless you allow it.

Stand up, learn from them, and become the super woman you are destined to be.

YOUNG BOYS

You don’t love her, you are only moved by her body; you are crazy about her because you think she is pretty and “sexy”.

Young man, that is lust!

You can control your hormones from ruining your life.

You can be different; a genuine nice guy, and a young gentleman.

Stop tricking those naive young/small girls with your misleading “pick up lines”; yes, you are good at it, but, stop it!

You don’t need to outdo yourself just because you want to impress a girl, it is a waste of efforts, skills, and talents; channel such productive energy into something meaningful and beneficial (a good course).

You can have a female friend and not sleep with her.

Stop seeing her as “sexy”, start seeing her as “great”.

Stop spending too much time giving her attention unnecessarily, staring into her eyes and saying “sweet things” that would make her blush till she loses control.

You know how to get into her pants, but, stop it!!

What if you get someone pregnant?

Oh! You would deny it and disappear, right?

What if you contract STDs/STIs?

What if you are trapped in that fling?

Treat every close girl as a sister, not a catch.

Treat every close older lady/woman as a mother.

Have a conscience!

Have sense!

Stop being wicked.

Stop being foolish.

You are an amazing young man destined for greatness, do not let hormones and peer pressure hinder or limit your greatness.

Even if you have already misbehaved, you can change for good.

Your past and mistakes have nothing on you, they don’t define you, unless you give permission.

You are a super man, let that become your reality; it is in your hands.

I care about you, and I will always tell you the truth; no matter how bitter, brutal, naked, raw, or unconditional it is.